Setting Boundaries That Stick Couples Workshop

In-Person

Welcome, we are so glad you’re considering giving yourself and your relationship the gift of setting boundaries that stick. Even considering a couples workshop is already a brave and significant step. If setting boundaries has been hard in the past, you are not alone. This is because boundaries are much more complex than many blurbs about good boundaries would have you believe. There is a lot of inner work that is needed to set boundaries and stick to them. But what inner work? What practices could actually help you change your brain to make setting boundaries easier? In Jules’ Setting Boundaries that Stick Couples Workshop, you can use guided practices to discover and work through the sticky spots in your relationship in a supportive, small group space of other couples doing the same work.

Jules developed the practices in the Setting Boundaries that Stick Couples Workshop after facing hard realities with her clients. Often in relationships, differences in thinking and feeling create challenging impasses that can feel impossible to navigate, and doing things in ways that support both you and others at once is hard. Other times, people do stuff that feels scary or not okay. The personal boundary practices that Jules can help you create in this workshop can help with all of that- from the smallest disagreements to the most painful relational moments in your relationship. The Setting Boundaries that Stick Couples Workshop is designed to support your brain to make hard things easier and to give you and your partner the support you both need to do the hard things that you know you want to do together, but haven't found a way to do yet.

The Setting Boundaries that Stick Couples Workshop is open to all adults over the age of 25. Specifically, this workshop is designed to be welcoming and affirming to those across all gender identities, races, sexualities, relationship structures/orientations, and across all political leanings and belief systems.

A unique opportunity to work with Jules and much less expensive than one-on-one intensives, the small group atmosphere of this workshop (limited to only 4 couples) allows for deep, individualized processing and one-on-one support, but with the added support of other couples in the group. This supportive environment is ripe with opportunities to grow while you learn new concepts and skills. The unique environment of a small group allows for:

  • Support while you do a hard thing

  • Learning from others’ experiences and discoveries

  • Individual and relational healing moments with support from Jules

  • Living your boundaries in your relationship, not just thinking about them

The goal of the Setting Boundaries that StickCouples Workshop is to help you and your partner live your boundaries in an embodied way together.

By attending this workshop, you can gain clarity around things like worthiness, values, and integrity both within yourself and your relationship/s. Your clarity would begin inside yourself and extend toward your relationship/s. You could find out how being clear with yourself and your partner could help you:

  • Discover what feels okay and what doesn’t for both yourself and your partner

  • Discover how incredibly worthy you both are

  • Put self worth work into action in your relationship/s

  • Face hard things with courage and clarity together

  • Find your unique map to boundary health and also learn about your partner’s

No matter what kind of struggles you’ve had in the past, Jules knows that the answer for what is healthy for you lies inside of you, waiting for you to both discover it, and trust yourselves enough to live bravely into that truth. Instead of a one-size-fits-all version of what “health” is, this workshop can help you and your partner discover for yourselves what feels internally flexible and responsive based on your own unique histories, sense of selves, cultural backgrounds, and identities.


In-Person Couples

Boundaries Workshop Dates

  • Monday, April 28, 2025: 2:00 PM - 6:00 PM CT

    Tuesday, April 29, 2025: 10:30 AM - 2:00 PM CT and 3:00 PM - 6:00 PM CT

    Wednesday, April 30, 2025: 1:00 PM - 6:00 PM CT

    Thursday, May 1, 2025: 2:00 PM - 6:30 PM CT

  • Monday, April 28, 2025: 12:00 PM - 4:00 PM PT

    Tuesday, April 29, 2025: 8:30 AM -12:00 PM PT and 1:00 PM - 4:00 PM PT

    Wednesday, April 30, 2025: 11:00 AM - 4:00 PM PT

    Thursday, May 1, 2025: 12:00 PM - 4:30 PM PT

  • Monday, April 28, 2025: 3:00 PM - 7:00 PM ET

    Tuesday, April 29, 2025: 11:30 AM - 3:00 PM ET and 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM ET

    Wednesday, April 30, 2025: 2:00 PM - 7:00 PM ET

    Thursday, May 1, 2025: 3:00 PM - 7:30 PM ET

  • Monday, April 28, 2025: 1:00 PM - 5:00 PM MT

    Tuesday, April 29, 2025: 9:30 AM - 1:00 PM MT and 2:00 PM - 5:00 PM MT

    Wednesday, April 30, 2025: 12:00 PM - 5:00 PM MT

    Thursday, May 1, 2025: 1:00 PM - 5:30 PM MT

 FAQs

  • The in-person workshop is 20 hours and will take place over 4 days:

    Day 1: Engaging with the Six Steps of External Boundaries

    Day 2: Finding your Psychological Boundary and Exploring Self compassion

    Day 3: Working your Containing Boundary and Shoring Up Your Physical Boundaries

    Day 4: Engaging with the Six Steps and Integrating Skills

  • Boundaries allow us to clearly communicate who we are, but it is easier said than done. Maybe you find yourself avoiding difficult conversations, doing things to avoid having to say “no”, or feeling like you have to choose between connectedness or a sense of authenticity. Boundary work is done both internally and externally and I have designed a workshop that can help you create practices that match your needs and inner work as well as support your external boundary setting. The container this workshop fosters might be very useful if you are hoping to move toward the following things:

    • Diminishing people-pleasing

    • Stop behaviors that are out of alignment with your values

    • Finding ways to cope with sticky spots in your romantic relationship/s

    • Setting boundaries at work

    • Having conversations that you tend to avoid or that feel clunky

    • Know more about what you want so that you can communicate your needs and hopes

    • Stop taking things personally

    • Grow in your respect and closeness with others


    The Setting Boundaries that Stick: Couples Workshop is open to all couples over the age of 25. Specifically, this workshop is designed to be welcoming and affirming to those across all gender identities, races, sexualities, relationship structures/orientations, and across all political leanings and belief systems.

    • Diminishing people-pleasing

    • Stop behaviors that are out of alignment with your values

    • Finding ways to cope with sticky spots in your romantic relationship/s

    • Setting boundaries at work

    • Having conversations that you tend to avoid or that feel clunky

    • Know more about what you want so that you can communicate your needs and hopes

    • Stop taking things personally

    • Grow in your respect and closeness with others

  • The price of the in-person workshop is $4500 per couple.

  • A unique opportunity to work with Jules, the small group atmosphere of the Boundaries Workshop, which is limited to only 4 couples, allows for deep, individualized processing and one-on-one support, but with the added support of others in the group.

  • This workshop is available in two formats: an online option accessible to all, and an in-person option specifically for couples, held at Jules’ office in Austin, Tx.

Setting Boundaries That Stick: The Workshop for Couples (In-Person)